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Perceptual dawn

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Image credit: Patti Black on unsplash the climbing timbre of the melody of the birds, fills the air with the hopeful herbs of praise nudging me to the continent of expressive words. the climbing timbre of the melody of the birds, injects in me the very sense of being heard as the crawling sun expedites new ways. the climbing timbre of the melody of the birds  fills the air with hopeful herbs we always desire. (c)Waterdroplet 20.05.2023 Poetry form: Triolet

The natural child: Parenting from the heart a book review

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This book talks about all we need to know to rear a healthy, growing child. Beginning right from empathetic parenting to tips to follow in various challenging situations, to the concept of schooling and disabilities, and everything you are looking for as you parent your little one. Summary: To understand a child, we need to wear the child's glasses. In this book, she discusses the old style of parenting by punishment and proposes the concept of empathetic parenting.  She says that the origin of hurtful parenting is an abused parent himself. This abused parent gives abuse and hurt to her child, and the cycle goes on. She says that this can only be achieved if we choose to pour out unconditional love despite our hurtful childhoods.  She asks the question: Are children and adults made up of two different things? Then why do we use different scales with each of them? When adults do wrong, we say, "Never mind, it happens sometimes." When the same mistake is made by the child,

Your beating house

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a ball of myocytes set on the chest soil beating on its own will until there's red fill saying all is well in every of our cell sending out roots down the soil's boots to reap tender shoots bearing the royal flower's bloom retreating the sheet of gloom woven by the failure loom boasting the mood that turned rude with nay food peeking the golden sun filled with positivity gun shooting energy bun enough to push you to your destiny hue where it could renew its soul's slipping grip with a positivity tip in a mindful dip. (c)Waterdroplet 18.05.2023 Inspirational image:  https://in.pinterest.com/pin/331085010118643056/ Image credit: Jan Alexander on pixabay

The power of your presence(magic)

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"The best way to make children good is to make them happy."                                                                                      Oscar Wilde We live our life in stages. There is a childhood stage, adolescence stage, adult stage, and old age stage. We live them all and try to make each stages as good as possible. In our life this childhood and adolescent stage is much influenced by our parents and their parenting. The famous psychologist Alfred Adler mentions that the way a parent interacts with their child has an impact on the child's future. His studies show that the parenting styles could contribute towards  inferiority complex  in children.  Exploring about parenting lead me to discover that the aggressiveness in children is associated with their unmet needs. Jan Hunt in her book "The Natural child- parenting from the heart" some of the silly mistakes which we do where upbringing our children. She mentions that we objectify our babies and mani

The fire walk

Cadet Josh was an intelligent guy full of enthusiasm and zeal. He had all the skills he needed to become a fighter . He felt content in himself and was looking forward to a challenging posting after his commissioning on 28th June, 2023.His batchmates patted him saying, "You will definitely write a new era in the pilot's history." He would quietly smile and say to himself, "Yeah! I'll do it.' Every morning as he got up he would strike off a day from his calendar reminding himself that he is one more day nearer to his destiny. There he would smile and sigh to himself and say, 'Ah! Just a few more days and I'm up in the air to conquer the unfair.’ His faculties were proud to have him on board with no match to him. At this moment Josh says, 'The table is set. I have to just toast my glass and celebrate my victory.’ The countdown begins. The final touch-up for the ceremony has begun. Everyone was busy making themselves to be in their best form. The ai

Never give up

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Nature is my hub to replenish my depleting energy. After a day’s long work or a week of hectic rush, I always love to lay in the arms of mother nature. She has a lot to give and I need a lot to plenish. This is where I communicate with her.   Every day of my life always has one or other problems.  There must never be a day when I do not have one. Hah! Now I feel they are my most loyal co-companions. So, instead of getting troubled and anxious of them, I juxtaposed them and started to understand them in a positive way and guess what? To my surprise they came to me with a purpose- with a purpose to build me, with a purpose to give me the threshold push I needed to mature and climb my new levels of success.  With this understanding, my life had a very different perspective. Now I was not getting depressed or saying words like, "this always happens to me. Why don't I have a peaceful time? What's wrong with me that troubles never leave me?" The answer is I have reprogramme

Push pus out

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Our body has a unique mechanism to deal with things that are called foreign. If something like this happens to occupy a space, our body starts to battle like a worrier laying down all its valiant T-cells along. This becomes the yellowish-white exudate rising over the skin. This is known as the pus. So, is this pus our friend or foe? This pus is a sign that our body is having something unwanted and we need to attend it. The moment we see the pus we try remedies to remove it and relieve ourself from forthcoming toxic reactions and sepsis. That means we start attending to the needs of our own body. Within this body lives our soul. Does this soul to get attacked by foreign particles forming the pus? Yes, our soul to gets hurt when someone says something that attacks our inner world. Our soul also starts fighting against each allegations that have been fired to us filling us with negativity, fear, anger, anguish, rage etc. This makes us ache a lot.  Do you all also feel the same? Yes, this